Wednesday, April 22, 2020

How time flies...

It has been awhile . It is either I have lost the interest in writing or I just dont know what to say anymore. But one thing for sure, I still read my few favorite blogs...

Time flies too fast nowadays. I just started to get busy at work and it is already  time to go \home. It felt like I just doze off and the sun has started rising ...And I just started to post my blog and it is almost midnite...Dear me..

Life move on, We had to move fast to catch up the time. How time flies...A moment of turning back and you are long gone from the rest. There is no time to ponder nor hesitate.. Decision need to be made fast and move on...

I am now 56 yo and looking back, I have not done anything that differ from when I was 36 yo. But life keep move on and I always belief that what has past, let it passed. Live for today for a better tomorrow.

I have not been to my parents house due to the pandemic of COVID 19 for awhile. Last week, I came back to my house from Langkawi and thought of dropping by their house just to see how they were doing. Well, I made a few excuses to go there.

When I reached their house, I knocked on the door. It was not locked, I opened the door and my dad was sitting at his usual seat by the window with his sarong and shirtless. Gave him Salaam and both my husband and me stood by the doorway.

I did not want to go in as I had just arrived from Langkawi through Ferry at Kuala Kedah . God knows what germs/viruses I could have brought with me during the 2 hour journey. Standing at the doorway, dad looked like he had lost lots of weight. As usual, being a chatter box as he usually is, he invited us in and keep calling mom who was busy packing food for us. (my first excuse was I wanted her to tapaw sambal tumis telor-her delicious dish) and getting my ikan bilis (my second excuse) ready.

We left for home after getting a whole plastic bag of goodies from mom. Just before we got out of the neighbourhood, mom called me. I thought she forgot to pack something but she said dad wanted to talk to me.

Dad apologized for not recognizing us. He thought I was an old lady with my grandson...!! Actually I was wearing a long mini telekung and he presume that I was some friend of my mom came with my cucu (which is my husband). My husband had a time of his life when he heard that ...!!

That made me realised that dad is getting old and losing his sight slowly. Mind you, he is going to be 83 this year. I hope he has a long life and remain as happy as he is for years to come.   





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