PRINCIPLES OF LIFE...PAUSE, REVIEW AND GO..

"HOW YOU START YOUR DAY WILL DETERMINE HOW THE REST OF YOUR DAY GOES" This is one of my life principal which I hold dearly. No matter how you feel, always pause before you act. It is certainly worth it. The few seconds you take will change your day or maybe your whole life.

None of us wanted bad things to happen but things do happens and our next course of action will always determine the outcome. What you give is what you get back. If you want the good things then take a good actions.

Our actions are within our control. We had a choice to make things better or worst.

Easier said than done. Yes. It takes great control to stop before taking action; especially when it involves emotions. I believe we had experience bad decision made and regretting immediately. We start wishing we had stop first before taking actions. 

How many of us wish that we could turn back the clock? I do as I am very sure most of you do as well. 

Knowing that every actions come with consequences certainly have an effect to our decisions. But how many of us can say with confidence that we always stop and think first before we do anything?

It takes a lot of self control and practice do make perfect. A matter of heart is not as easy as said. Let us start now and who knows we can change our outcome just by pausing our action for a second. It certainly worth it. Believe Me... 

Semoga Ayah tenang di sana 10 May 2020

It has been nearly2 years  since my father left us making us "yatim piatu" on 10th May 2020. He had kidney complications and stroke which caused him to be delirious..(that was what we thought) but later we found out that he was "istighfar".I managed to be with him for a few days at the hospital and that was the last duty I did for him before he left us.

My father was a strict man. He values time and as he was a teacher, he was very dicipline. He despised lateness and bad handwriting( lucky me I was not his student) hehehe..He likes to complaint if things did not go his way but he has a good heart. 

He always donate to the road cleaner if he found that he liked them. He always carry RM10 change in his pocket whenever he went out. I knew because I was the one supplying him the money. One thing about him was that he loved to talk about his family and his past experiences. Whoever get to know him

will always ended up staying late with him just to hear his stories. 

He had a few books under his pen name "Halim R" and his last should had been his biography but still unfinished. I may need to go through his notes if I want to help him finished his last book. I am procrastinating as I still don't have time to study his notes, Maybe once I retire, I can start looking into it.

Ayah, we became quite close after mom passed away. You were lonely and we found you a replacement and she has been very good to you until your last breath. May you are granted peace and all your sins forgiven. We love you and I am sure you knew it ..Till we meet again ...

2016

Today 31 January 2016.. a month went by and I thought I should write something here to mark the new year.

New year started with a new RHB ways of business. Less staff but more work. Last year, RHB has offered CTS (Career Transition Scheme) or better known as VSS. My ABM, Hj  was replaced by his wife, Zarina. 

Auni still go to the same school, Sek Men Keb Sultan Ismail. Amir on the other hand had moved to the secondary school, Sek Men Ibrahim...He seems happy there...

Zhafri will be doing his intern this year for 3 months and hopefully will complete his studies by this year.   

Me....well there are so much has been going on in my life now. First, the new management policies for rhb. I am doing other thing as well..Or I forgotten ..my husband has started his own business now..First he is into herbs oil "Minyak Sapu Good Good". A good one but not going so well.

How time flies...

It has been awhile . It is either I have lost the interest in writing or I just dont know what to say anymore. But one thing for sure, I still read my few favorite blogs...

Time flies too fast nowadays. I just started to get busy at work and it is already  time to go \home. It felt like I just doze off and the sun has started rising ...And I just started to post my blog and it is almost midnite...Dear me..

Life move on, We had to move fast to catch up the time. How time flies...A moment of turning back and you are long gone from the rest. There is no time to ponder nor hesitate.. Decision need to be made fast and move on...

I am now 56 yo and looking back, I have not done anything that differ from when I was 36 yo. But life keep move on and I always belief that what has past, let it passed. Live for today for a better tomorrow.

I have not been to my parents house due to the pandemic of COVID 19 for awhile. Last week, I came back to my house from Langkawi and thought of dropping by their house just to see how they were doing. Well, I made a few excuses to go there.

When I reached their house, I knocked on the door. It was not locked, I opened the door and my dad was sitting at his usual seat by the window with his sarong and shirtless. Gave him Salaam and both my husband and me stood by the doorway.

I did not want to go in as I had just arrived from Langkawi through Ferry at Kuala Kedah . God knows what germs/viruses I could have brought with me during the 2 hour journey. Standing at the doorway, dad looked like he had lost lots of weight. As usual, being a chatter box as he usually is, he invited us in and keep calling mom who was busy packing food for us. (my first excuse was I wanted her to tapaw sambal tumis telor-her delicious dish) and getting my ikan bilis (my second excuse) ready.

We left for home after getting a whole plastic bag of goodies from mom. Just before we got out of the neighbourhood, mom called me. I thought she forgot to pack something but she said dad wanted to talk to me.

Dad apologized for not recognizing us. He thought I was an old lady with my grandson...!! Actually I was wearing a long mini telekung and he presume that I was some friend of my mom came with my cucu (which is my husband). My husband had a time of his life when he heard that ...!!

That made me realised that dad is getting old and losing his sight slowly. Mind you, he is going to be 83 this year. I hope he has a long life and remain as happy as he is for years to come.   

Covid 19.. Threat and blessings

First detected in Wuhan, China on 31 December 2019. It was diagnosed as pneumonia of unknown cause.

The outbreak was declared a Public Health Emergency of International Concern on 30 January 2020.

11 February 2020, Who announced the new corona virus disease as COVID-19.

Nanti next year jika umur panjang kita baca balik catatan sepanjang tempoh PKP
2020 dalam ingatan..
Sejarah dalam lipatan sepanjang perjalanan hidup diatas muka bumi Allah taala..

14 APRIL 2020

Bermula
18 Mac - 14 April 2020
Perintah Kawalan Pergerakan ...

Hari ni 12 April 2020 Perintah Kawalan Pergerakkan (PKP) fasa ke-3 bersambung hingga 28 april 2020.

⛽harga minyak jatuh sehingga RM1.25 seliter
🏢Semua pejabat di seluruh Malaysia diarah tutup sepanjang Perintah Kawalan Pergerakan (PKP) dan kerja - kerja dilaksanakan sepenuhnya dari rumah.
📱🖥️Semua sekolah dan pendidikan dilaksanakan di atas talian.
🕴️🕴️Penjarakan sosial sentiasa diutamakan.
♦️Pita pelekat dilekatkan di atas lantai - lantai kedai untuk menentukan jarak selamat 1 meter di antara pelanggan
🍽️Restoran dan kedai - kedai makan ditutup, hanya dibenarkan bungkus sahaja.
🚶🚶🚶Hanya beberapa orang sahaja dibenarkan berada di dalam kedai.
🏤Kedai bukan keperluan asas dan perniagaan tidak berkaitan pembekalan makanan diarah tutup.
🤸🏋️Keseluruhan acara dan musim sukan di seluruh dunia dibatalkan serta merta
💃Konsert, perlancongan, festival, acara hiburan dibatalkan.
👰🤵Majlis perkahwinan dan pelbagai sambutan majlis bersama keluarga dibatalkan.
🕌⛩️Tiada lagi jemaah di masjid, dan rumah - rumah ibadat ditutup.
👩‍👩‍👧‍👦👨‍👨‍👦Tidak dibenarkan perkumpulan 50 orang atau lebih, kemudian diubah kepada 20 org atau lebih, hanya dibenarkan 10 orang atau kurang dari itu dibenarkan.
🎡⛲Taman permainan kanak - kanak ditutup.
👩‍🔬👩‍⚕️Kekurangan stok penutup muka, gaun, dan sarung tangan untuk kegunaan pekerja barisan hadapan.
🛌Kekurangan alat bantuan pernafasan bagi pesakit kritikal.
🧤Berlakunya pembelian panik sehingga kekurangan alat pembasmian, tiada sabun cuci tangan, tiada cecair pembersih tangan
🥦🛒Rak - rak di kedai menjadi kosong.
🏭Kilang - kilang pembuatan, kilang penyulingan dan perniagaan lain telah menukar perkhidmatan mereka dengan membantu menyediakan visors, penutup muka, cecair pencuci tangan dan PPE.
⛔Kerajaan telah melaksanakan sekatan jalan di setiap kawasan dan tertutup kepada pergerakan yang tidak penting.
✈️Tiket kapal terbang murah, namun kita tidak boleh keluar melancong.
Sidang media dari Kementerian Kesihatan di keudarakan setiap hari.
📝Kemaskini kes baru, yang telah sembuh dan pesakit yang meninggal dunia dilakukan setiap hari.
🚗🚦Jalan raya menjadi kosong tanpa kelibat manusia.
🧤Ramai orang memakai penutup muka dan sarung tangan apabila keluar.   
👩‍⚕️Pekerja kesihatan pula, menjadi takut untuk pulang ke rumah dan berjumpa keluarga.
📈📉" Mendatarkan lengkung graf" itulah yang sering dikatakan, bersama dengan kata-kata " Kita lakukan ini bersama" dan "Kita akan sembuh bersama"
💰💵Bantuan Prihatin Nasional masuk dlm acc msg2 bermula hr ini.. Dari kerajaan yang baru seminggu terbentuk lalu terpaksa menghadapi ancaman wabak ini... Alhamdulillah tq PM

Ini adalah Novel Coronavirus ( Covid19) suatu penyakit pandemik, yang diwartakan pada 18 mac 2020

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Life Goes On

It has been awhile . It is either I have lost the interest in writing or I just dont know what to say anymore. But one thing for sure, I still read my few favorite blogs...

Time flies too fast nowadays. I just started to get busy at work and it is already  time to go \home. It felt like I just doze off and the sun has started rising ...And I just started to post my blog and it is almost midnite...Dear me..

Life move on, We had to move fast to catch up the time. How time flies...A moment of turning back and you are long gone from the rest. There is no time to ponder nor hesitate.. Decision need to be made fast and move on...

I dont have much time lately to lazy around. It is not my job that hinder me from my writing but I juz dont feel like sitting down and squeeze my brain for something to write...hehehee...in other word, I was too lazy to think.

Let me update on what had happened in my life and my circle of friends and family.

I became a step-grandma 3 years ago. another one came in about a year ago. 2 more coming by January next year...that was the addition

Did I tell about my new step mother? Well that was also an addition. My dad gotten married in May 2012  to a wonderful young lady, Noraini Ahmad.. mind you she is a year younger than me...hihihi My dad is soooo lucky to have her...

Recently my youngest brother just got his divorce on 15 August 2016.. That was a sad one...minus one sister in law...

I have a new maid now since my old one went back in July 2nd. We are still getting use to her around...

Well work wise... I am still the manager of RHB Islamic Bank.. Our branch is doing well with the limited manpower that were given to us...At least we maintained as the top 4 branches in Malaysia... BRAVO team!!

Let us move to my passion at the moment...

I am into online selling at the moment.. please do drop by my facebook page.. Onlineshopping IbuNim

okay gotta go for now.. will continue in a short while..

enjoy the poducts of my Online shop

Bullies? Bull S**t!!

This morning, my husband told me about the son's of his friend being another victim of bullies at MRSM Pendang. This happened 2 days ago. The school informed the parents about the incident. 

And this friend is enquiring whether or not he should lodge police report.

He doesn't want the students future to be tarnish due to the incident. His son has got some bruises but another boy is in worst condition. Does he need to ask the question? I belief the bullies will continue to bully even after school so why dont we stop the behaviour now. If we let them go easy, there will be more other victims . Who cares if their fathers are some bigshot!! That doesn't give the imnmunity!!

It made my blood boiling!!